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Contrary to popular opinion, its often the man who decides to stop having sex in long-term relationships says relationship expert Tracey Cox Find out what turns him on You already know the answer to that one, right? You've gone whu the typical exercises of seduction, friendship and caring, only to have been rejected and thwarted again and again.

The key here is finding out why, because not all couples have the same reasons. The proliferation of pornography is a natural consequence of the ability to both wanr watch uncensored internet content in today's increasingly digitalized world. There is good news though: his low libido often has nothing to do with him not loving you or finding you attractive.

Excessive exercise may be the culprit, a syndrome that can mirror anorexia and bulimia and may affect sexual desire. Let him know tl think this is normal so he won't panic or get embarrassed. You are not alone in facing this issue with your partner.

Please send your sex and relationship inquiries to tips bustle. She completed her postdoctoral eoesnt from the University of Minnesota Medical School, one of only a few university programs in the world dedicated to sexuality training. If he's avoiding sex because of erection problems, the pressure of not being able to perform when you so desperately want him to could be absolutely disastrous.

1. his work life may be overwhelming.

odesnt Look at his lifestyle He's fine emotionally but nothing's working physically? What about mental or chemical health? However, not everyone feels the same way about sex. Get him to see a doctor if you think he may be suffering from low testosterone or may need medication. If your partner is uncomfortable with one idea of sex, then maybe there are some other things you can try.

What to do if your partner doesn't want to have sex

Premature ejaculation and delayed ejaculation can be common problems for men with erectile dysfunction EDand it can definitely affect his confidence. My relationships at the moment is going brilliantly in every department apart from this Tell them that you want to talk about your sex life, and ask when it would be a good day and time for them to do that. The reason may simply be biological, not psychological. You sure about that?

These aren't men with erection problems, these are men who aren't interested in getting one. Here are some of the common ones: A health issue, like an undiagnosed medical condition A reaction to medication.

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When you think of a mistress, you likely automatically think of another partner entering into the picture. While a loss of sex drive doesn't always mean he has a health condition, it wouldn't hurt to mention your concern to him so he can pass along any questions to his wit. But the "mistress" taking up all of your man's attention and affection could actually be his occupation.

Share shares You don't because you think it makes you look bad you're lousy in bed, married to a closet gay guy, just not sexy any more etc.

10 reasons your husband doesn't want to have sex

Is he getting enough ,e He may be watching porn and therefore masturbating, lowering his own sexual function. Be vulnerable and willing to learn what sex means to each other without judgement, and be willing to please one another.

We love each other and get on amazingly well. I feel guilty for doing this, but find it difficult to fantasies about my current boyfriend as we hardly have sex!!! A relationships counsellor or a sex therapist will be able to work through these issues with both of you so that you can come to a solution together and find something that works for both of you.

He could have lower levels of testosterone. Get him to cut back on alcohol, quit smoking, exercise, reduce stress wherever possible, get enough sleep. Instead of closing up, talk to him about his sexual feelings dosent needs — and yours.

Don’t blame yourself

If he's not coping at work, his self-esteem takes a battering — lots of men define themselves by their status their jobthe money they make their job and how well they perform in bed affected by his job. Tracey Cox says the happier and healthier the man, the better your sex life hxve be Another reason why this can backfire: one of the problems for lots of people long-term is sex is too available, so pushing it in his face perhaps literally doesn't work.

Loss of sex drive for a man doesn't just mean problems in the bedroom. What can I do right? If you find yourself interrupting when he speaks, increase your ability to listen.

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If he's not, his sexual confidence slides quietly through the floorboards. How about fatigue or any cultural or religious conflicts, or sexual shame?

But just as we can never make anyone love us, we can't make someone want to have sex. Try a spontaneous hug, kiss, or back rub, which could have big payoffs for your sex life. When renowned US therapist Michele Weiner Davis, with 30 years of couples therapy under her belt, suggested 25 per cent of American men didn't want sex, the response was indignant fury. Until eventually he's avoiding sex altogether.

His work life may be overwhelming. You'll get a lot further if you break your ultimate goal down into steps and if you make the requests action-based.

What do you do when your partner doesn’t want to be intimate?

The more confident you are that the solution you're suggesting will be met with approval and excitement, the more positive you'll sound - and the more likely he is to think it's a great idea. This is normal for any relationship, and is not necessarily something to be worried about. Don't play doednt blame game.